Fear

I interpreted a negative behavior. A person criticized a people mistake tend to afraid of others do the same over her/himself. So, when she did, she will trying hard to protect herself and will never accept her failure, even not expect self evaluation.

Thing that I can't put up with

Here I'm gonna reveal a little bit about my family matter that I can't put up with...haha~ normally this kind of topic is unfavourable anyhow if I don't do so, I don't think that I have any outlet to rant my dissatisfaction.

I have no idea why is my sister has this kind of character that is she wanna overcome anything that people talk to her and she tend to make negative feeling to that person. She never thought of the consequences people might turn her away later on. Heaven knows she still acted like a child from primary school till present (Frankly I merely can remember the bad impression before her primary school time). One more thing, for me, if anything people comment about me, I will take note about that and evaluate it. But I tell you my sister do the contrast, she will feel very offended instead and defend for her rightful act for whatever reasons (I hardly find those are making sense), and criticism is her another specialty.

 

Why acted like this?

So I have a friend who are quite a typical criticism and sarcasm. Sometimes it's good to do so for the sake of  justice but this no. Come to think about it, if you have a friend who always hang out together, willing to give you a lift, even celebrate your birthday... how can you sometimes never put yourself in their shoes and don't mind to make people feel awkward after throwing your words out...this act I have been seeing since secondary school but surprisingly at this age. Sometimes we talk, we share our thought but never step on people...some people may argue that good friends are meant to tease each other, I tell you this apply when we mutually feel the fun but if in a negative way, the people will just get pissed off by nature. I don't know whether are you going to ponder about this or just leave it and carry on with your life by your current nature..maturity (or social skill in this context) is gain through experience, trial and error, and comments about you from the surrounding. I can just say that this is my little piece of comment, it's bugging me a little or else I won't do so... Therefore, what are you going to do is all leave it to yourself... PEACE !!

No worries, be youself

I'd been worrying too much. Sometimes it's not the best if you worrying too much when chatting especially with friends. So where are the fun and laughter? If there is the need to follow the "standard filter" before giving a speech, doesn't it make everybody the same?? Remember, everybody has a beautifully unique brain patterns, that's make people have different perspective, like some people are creative, certain are logical thinking type. Plus, we're mature people, should be more readily to accept views, criticisms and I believe if that is a good point, everyone will agreed with it.

Male and Female Nowadays..

Have been quite some time didn't blog.. never know  how will my writing skill being regress...

Alright, here is the thing that raise my attention after having a tea with Mr. Chan (my ex-tuition teacher). Guys nowadays are less proactive compared to the opposite gender. Why?

He: So, currently you're graduated, not working yet..have you travel overseas?
Me: No.
He: Local?
Me: Nay
He: Your sister traveled a lot, she even been to Taiwan...What were you doing all this while?
Me:...
He: This phenomenon can view from my research team too...The females dare to travel oversea alone even first timer, and aware of air tickets pricing...while guys, spending their own sweet time with lappy.. What happened? You know, during the old days, females were sitting at home woven clothes while guys used to going out a lot...Now the trend is switched. You know, you should now take advantage to travel alone, savior how the foreigners, modern citizen live, will definitely gain different perspective when back to home country. [This is so funny] Got chance go Japan and see, you're a man not a little girl, shouldn't worry..If got rape just treated it as giving a chance for 日本妹(Japanese chicks) to rape you.
*Burst into laughter*

Nervousessss

I think I'm confident when I speak until I really spoke to a man...my mind suddenly goes wrong and affecting how I speak...Damn, guess I need to go for public speaking academy...@@ OMG, I'm terribly Amature TT

No Sustainable Real Good Friendship Between 2 Men

Two male friendship are hard to sustain especially the other half is more appealing to others. Let's make an situation whereby both A and B guys were thrown into a female crowd. The A guy is good looking, humorous, and a sportsman type.While the B guy is optimistic, quiet and love smiling. As both of them pair up making them a totally contrast man quality.

Let say most of the females were attracted to A, how is the B emotionally feel? Unconfident? Jealous? What will happen in a long term? Will he find a way to discontinue this friendship? Will it be hard for him to share this problem to A?

Actually B is really really a good partner to A. But B just refuse to explain. Without B, A is alone.